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this because two small children played together in a sandbox. Adult Amy could learn a lot from little five-year-old Amy. That exchange with Ali might be the most trans- formational conversation I've ever had with an un- churched neighbor. Of course, I can make excuses: some neighbors already know Jesus, other neighbors are standoffish and never engage in conversation. Where I currently live, two of my three neighbors don't even speak much English. Excuses abound, but Anna's critical question remains: If the most important thing we can do is tell others about Jesus, why don't we do it? How do our days fill up with other tasks without making room for the most important one? Families are perfectly positioned to practice sharing God's love and grace not only with one another but also with the people around them, like neighbors, classmates, and work colleagues. A friend of mine strongly believes the best way she can witness to her nonbelieving friends is through how she conducts her family life. People notice how she talks to and about her husband, as well as how she treats her children. Her home is filled with the love of Christ and marked by the fruit of the Spirit. What a witness Christian families can make by being known for their welcoming homes, service to their communities, and invitations to neighbors! While the pandemic has kept many people apart, it's birthed many opportunities for neighbors to be, well, neighborly. Because travel is limited and schools re- mote, there's an uptick in neighborhood children play- ing together, adults sharing meals and supplies, and individuals checking in on one another. What might it look like after the pandemic if we continue to foster homes and neighborhoods of hospitality, where house- holds grill out together, host neighborhood events, or even start small groups? Children are never too young or adults too old to cultivate a servant-minded mentality that looks to put other's needs above their own. Each family member is equipped with gifts and abilities given by God for the good of others. Learning to identify and celebrate each family member's unique gifts is a way we honor God, build up our family, and serve our neighbor. If families are incubators for instilling and encouraging humble, compassionate servanthood, then our neigh- borhoods are the perfect test sites for practicing what we learn. 3 Eckrich, 44–45. The beauty of family is that every family is different! This fun illustrated children's book shows the glorious gift of spending time with family and embracing all of your family's unique differences. Find this title and others listed in this magazine at cph.org/llresources. GOD'S GIFT OF FAMILY Are you cultivating a household of hospitality? Discuss these questions with your family at an upcoming meal to consider the opportunities you have in your neighborhood: ∙ How are we doing in accomplishing God's purpose with the resources He has given us? ∙ What have we done today for the good of God's kingdom? 3 ∙ Who in my community can I culti- vate a friendship with? End your conversation in prayer, asking for the Lord's guidance and Spirit's leading. w Lutheran Life 9

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